If you feel that there’s no solution to your problem – pray to God.
Ask God to help you change to the point where the world around you would change.
I give an example when a husband was insulting his wife and his wife started to pray ‘Please God forgive me for making my husband angry because of my inner emotional imbalance’. [The husband stopped insulting her straight away.] Because the wife started to change.
If you can’t change, if you are not able to change due to an emotional imbalance - you can be active on a superficial level by going to the police, trying to explain, trying to find a compromise and so on. However, this is not very effective because the reason for other people’s aggression is our inner imbalance. We need to start with the root of the problem.
Therefore the extent to which you can put love first, restrain your desires, restrain your ambitions, your contempt, condemnation and so on, will determine the extent of this good influence on your husband and children.
I address this mainly to women, because the health of children is dependent on them many times more then it is on men. However, in principle, men can do the same.
I saw an example when a man had a bad form of prostatitis and the reason behind his illness was the fact that he made his woman have an abortion. That signifies that aggression to children, even if it’s in the future, does not disappear as we pay for it later.