Children come from Love

Reader's question:

I am 30 years old, I have been working with your books for three years, thank you very much!

Three years ago, I was diagnosed with terrible conditions: ovarian cysts and hepatitis C.

There were serious problems in my family life: arguments with my husband, humiliation from his side, even to the point of contemplating ending my life.

I scheduled for surgery, but reconsidered in time. I was lucky—I met people who follow your teachings and reached out to them, learned about your books.

My family life has improved, my husband and I are living 'soul to soul,' I don't resort to medications. I had an ultrasound, the cysts disappeared, and hepatitis C is gone.

I was born into the Muslim faith, but religious upbringing was not emphasized in our family. Therefore, realizing everything, I decided to embrace Christianity.

However, I still have an unresolved issue: I really want a child, but I can't get pregnant, and I can't find an area where I can apply myself (I am a housewife).

My attitude towards men has changed, respect and love for them have emerged, even though both my father and husband have passed away—my mother is a widow.

My attitude towards life has changed, I accept all situations as Divine messages.

Please diagnose what needs to be corrected and worked on for God to send a baby. And in what field I can apply myself, where I will be needed.

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Sergey Nikolaevich's response:

Let's reason logically. If there is a pattern of men dying in your family, it suggests that women internally carry a significant level of aggression. If your mother is a widow, then it's probable that not only you, but also your future children and grandchildren carry the burden of attachment to human happiness, the burden of passions and aggression.

You've managed to work on yourself, and as a result, the people around you have started to change. But this doesn't necessarily mean that your future children and grandchildren have changed. When your subconscious attachment and aggression decrease to the extent that love in your soul increases several times over, then there will be enough love for children and conception will occur.

As soon as conception becomes possible, there will be a need for further purification, but this time it will be working towards the children. Often a woman cannot conceive for a simple reason: her soul lacks the love necessary to undergo the trials needed for the purification of the child's soul. Therefore, the improvement of your physical health only indicates that you have somewhat put yourself in order.

If conception becomes possible, hepatitis may return, your husband may start humiliating you again, urinary tract infections may appear out of nowhere, and so on, and so forth. You simply shouldn't expect favorable results, but rather continuously work towards them. You need to work on purifying the souls of your children and grandchildren through yourself. You must do everything you can, and then the higher powers will decide whether to give you a child or not.

Regarding Islam. Honestly, I don't see any difference between Christianity and Islam. This is if we talk about the essence. In Islam, five major prophets are revered, and everything they said is considered sacred. These are Noah, Abraham, Moses, Christ, and Mohammed. Everything that Christ taught is recognized by Islam.

If we talk about differences, they mostly concern the interpretation of Christ's words. In this regard, there are indeed disagreements between Catholics, Orthodox, and Muslims.

However, if we go beyond ritual, politics, and economics, Islam and Christianity teach the same: God is one, love for Him is the highest good, the will of the Creator is sacred, and it must be accepted unconditionally. The Ten Commandments are equally sacred for Muslims and Christians. So, the main thing is not belonging to any religion, but love in the soul and adherence to the main commandments.

A few more words about descendants. I've said before that prayer for them is especially effective in spring and at the beginning of August. If fasting is observed in spring, it provides much greater opportunities for putting the soul in order. The essence of fasting is simple: happiness in the soul should be continuous—against the background of abstinence from sex, sweets, heavy food, and haste. But I want to remind once again—no techniques can replace personal devotion to God.

The need for love should be as essential as the need for breathing. If the souls of children become harmonious, everything will align in such a way that they will come into the world.

S.N. Lazarev «Experience of Survival 1»