How to neutralize negative emotions accumulated in the past?

At that time, I had just started practicing healing and treated with my hands. One patient suffered from high blood pressure. After my sessions, her pressure would normalize, but then rise again after a day. This repeated several times.

I inquired about when her pressure problems began, and we searched for a cause. Eventually, we unearthed the situation of her sister's funeral. The woman couldn't accept her sister's death, resulting in blood pressure spikes. I advised the patient to go to church, retrospectively accept what happened, and repent for not accepting the Divine will. When she did this, her pressure normalized. It was then that I made an important realization: one should not regret the past.

Later, I understood that regretting the past is a refusal to accept the Divine will, a fight against God. To stop regretting the past, one must learn to accept the present, that is, everything happening now. Everything happening is rational, filled with a higher meaning. As the famous saying goes:

«Whatever God does, it's for the best».

At that time, I made another very important realization: the cause constantly feeds the effect. We're used to thinking that God once created the Universe and then withdrew, leaving it to exist on its own. We think the past is detached from the present: a cause of illness arose at some point, followed by the disease that needs treatment. In reality, the cause of the disease constantly fuels the illness. Time is unified: past, present, and future are one.

Everything from the past continuously interacts with the present, affecting and changing both the present and the future. Our attitude towards the past corresponds to how we feel in the present and how we will feel in the future. The more correctly a person revises their past, changes their attitude towards it, and transforms themselves in the present, the more they gain the ability to overcome their illness. All our grievances, hatred, regrets, etc., remain in our subconscious, and the negative emotions experienced at some point don't disappear but continue to fuel our problems. How to neutralize negative emotions accumulated in the past?

The first step is repentance. Repentance is the primary change.

Then, a real change in character is necessary, which will allow not to be offended, judge, fear, or regret as before.

S.N. Lazarev, «Healing the Soul»