How to Pray Correctly?

Many, having read my seven books, ask: «How should I pray, what should I ask for?»

«Only do one thing,» I reply. «Learn to properly go through a traumatic situation. Learn to preserve the Divine at the moment of losing the human. Feel that you hold love in any situation — pray for your children so that they can preserve and keep love in any trials. Not only when the material and spiritual level collapses, but also the most important — the sensual level.»

People have told me that information is most easily assimilated through questions and answers. Hence this book is being released, and if you notice repetitions, I want to warn you that this is not accidental.

Yesterday, March 18th, I had a presentation in St. Petersburg. In the morning from the office, I called a woman who had been to see me twice. She has cancer. There was no improvement. This is an interesting situation for me. So I call her and look at her field (Additionally, she was at my presentation yesterday.). Her field is good, her acceptance of the traumatic situation is high.

«Name your children» I ask.

She names them, and everything becomes clear to me.

One of her children in the field has a potential death. Acceptance of the traumatic situation is closed. He cannot preserve love during the shake-up of the sensual level. The author is the mother, who did not know how to preserve love in purifying painful situations. Every painful situation that comes to the son, on the subtle plane, causes a self-destruction explosion. In the mother, this program turns into a cancerous tumor.

«In your youth, you had flashes of unwillingness to live, despondency, dissatisfaction with yourself» I say. «You internally suppressed love for your husband, through whom purification took place. You need to pray for your son, teach him to always preserve love in any situation.»

«How should I pray for my son?» the woman asks.

Listen, but I talked about just that in my lecture yesterday.

«Excuse me» says the patient, «but it somehow doesn't sink in.»

Remember all the moments when you renounced love. I see that you have worked on yourself. I don't see hatred or resentment in your soul, but there is a lot of renunciation of love through despondency, unwillingness to live. You need to forgive not only others but also yourself, you need to accept your fate as given by God. Teach your son to preserve love and overcome not only hatred and resentment, but also despondency, doubts, and fear. You have no idea how fear destroys our souls. It is not for nothing that the Bible says: «He that feareth is not made perfect in love.»

In the subconscious, the emotion of fear breaks down into renunciation, hatred, and a program to destroy whom we fear. Fear is one of the primary forms of dependency. First, we lose the sensation and vision of the Divine in this world. Our will, our desires begin to overshadow Divine love. And then fear appears. I am afraid of losing the human, on which I have become dependent. Doubts about the future, disbelief in oneself follow fear. After that comes dissatisfaction with fate, despondency. Then grievances appear, and after them — hatred. When we constantly fear for our future and expect something from it, we are already ill. Expectation is vampirism — consumption, dependency.

Once again, briefly repeating: teach your son to preserve love. Pray that he discards everything that prevents loving. Help his soul — your body will recover. Do you think that renunciation of love comes only through hatred and grievances? I recently consulted a man with heart arrhythmia up to stops. The reason was his beloved woman. The first question I asked her: «Are you afraid to lose him?»

«Yes, I am constantly afraid that he will leave,» she replied.

«Understand that by this you are killing him. Understand that your will here means nothing. If it is decreed from above that you are to divorce, you can't do anything, and your fears are useless. If he is meant to be with you, he will not go anywhere. But if your love begins to turn into expectation and dependency and generates fears and despondency, then believe me, this is the worst way to keep a loved one.»

There are many forms of renouncing love. Love is always associated with purifying pain. And if we don't want to accept the pain and try to run away from the loved one, provoking him and ourselves to part, devaluing, discrediting our feeling, trying to control it, then to save our soul, we must lose everything for which we renounce love for God.

To accept the Divine will, to submit to love, to preserve love at the moment of losing everything human, to live with this feeling, continuously striving for it, — these are the main rules for health and survival.

S.N. Lazarev, «Diagnostics of Karma», Book 8