Preserving Love in the Moment of Loss

We are all united on a subtle level, so our emotions can mix, and souls can merge with one another. In England, a psychiatrist, after working for two years, must take a year off, meaning their soul and emotions must be cleansed. Meanwhile, our psychiatrists increasingly resemble their patients. But that seems to be no issue.

«It's clear with doctors», says a friend, «I am a doctor myself, tell me about healers.»

«Sure», I say, «imagine this scenario». A sick person comes to a saint. The saint prays, and the person is healed. What happens here? Illness is connected to our subconscious emotions; in simpler terms, sin settles in our feelings, they go deep into the subconscious and sit there. The saint strives towards love and God, and his feelings are cleansed at a great depth. If the patient's feelings, the soul, are aligned, he recovers, but this requires merging with the saint, opening up one's soul to him, believing in God. Any emotion is compressed space and time, an emotion is a situation. Therefore, when we change our deep emotions, we change our character and our fate.

Now imagine a person comes to a healer who thinks about money, fame, his mistress. Can such a healer help? Unlikely to cleanse the soul, but to transfer disease from one organ to another, to dump dirt into the patient's soul or onto his children — certainly. There's another option — to take the problem upon oneself. And it turns out, the healer takes on someone else's sin, and the patient becomes clean.

«Do you know what the greatest debauchery in the world is?» I ask my friend. It's the absence of punishment. It leads to greater sins and ultimately turns one away from God. So, many healers act exactly like that. I had a woman come to me with very serious problems. According to my diagnosis, she was very clingy, leading to jealousy, sensitivity, increased fear for the lives of loved ones, health problems, personal life issues, and so on. What do I advise in such cases?

First — to feel that love for God is a greater pleasure than love for another person. Second — to accept pain, betrayal, insult, loss of a loved one as medicine, as purification of Divine love. To preserve love in the moment of insult, loss, separation. Then learn to be alone, limit oneself in food and sex, because if desires are not restrained, it harms the soul and body. Furthermore, always give more to the loved one than take from them.

Jealousy is dependency on desires, and consumerism intensifies dependency. A person should be the sun, a spring, not a puddle. One can help oneself with diet and herbs, that is, remove everything that intensifies jealousy (sweets, overeating, yeast bread, beer, etc.).

Jealousy affects vision, ears, joints; with jealousy, the heart and urinary system suffer, meaning all herbs and folk remedies that strengthen the urinary system, joints, heart, vision, can help in personal change and overcoming one's problems.

Attachments to human values occur only when there is aggression. If one eats or engages in sex without real appetite or desire, attachment, dependency flares up just as with aggression. I thought long about this and eventually understood why. Internal aggressiveness suppresses love. And if you do something without love, you start to depend on it and get hooked.

Love is the highest energy; it generates all desires, meaning if we do something without real desire, we harm our soul. Mozart's father forced him to be a brilliant musician, with violence and without much love, hence — an early death.

So, if you have overloads but have love and a sense of flight, that is, energy, these overloads can give a huge boost to development, because they will push towards greater intensity of love.

But if overloads are long-lasting and without positive emotions, it will be extermination of love in the soul. And to stop this process, after such overloads one needs to fall ill or die, so that love remains.

S. N. Lazarev, «Diagnostics of Karma 12»